Showing posts with label self. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self. Show all posts

Sunday, 2 April 2023

Embrace Yourself :: A Journey to Self-Acceptance

Have you ever had those moments where you catch yourself staring in the mirror, picking apart every imperfection, wishing you looked more like the airbrushed images we see plastered across magazines? It's like a never-ending cycle of comparing ourselves to these unrealistic beauty standards, and let's face it, it is EXHAUSTING.

Here's the thing: in this whirlwind of doubts and insecurities, there's a profound truth we often overlook. Self-acceptance and self-love aren't just buzzwords thrown around in self-help books; they're the cornerstone for personal growth and genuine happiness. Embracing who we are, flaws and all, is the catalyst for unlocking our full potential and finding fulfillment in our lives. 

So, what is self-acceptance? It's pretty simple, actually. It's about accepting yourself for who you are, flaws and all. It's about recognizing that you're not perfect, and that's okay. It's about loving yourself despite your imperfections.

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When you embrace yourself, you're showing yourself love and acceptance. You're allowing yourself to be who you are without judgment or criticism. When you're *NOT* constantly judging and criticizing yourself, you can focus on what truly matters in life.

Every body is different and beautiful in its own way. When you embrace your body, you are giving yourself permission to love yourself and be happy with who you are. You are showing yourself love and acceptance. You are allowing yourself to be who YOU are without judgment or criticism.

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Let's remember to treat ourselves with the same kindness and compassion we extend to others. Let's continue to embrace our bodies, recognizing the beauty in our uniqueness and diversity.

Here's to loving ourselves unconditionally, cherishing every flaw as a testament to our individuality, and standing tall in pride of who we are. Because in this journey of self-acceptance, our worth shines brightest when we embrace our true selves.

Cheers

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Friday, 3 April 2015

Cherish People, Not Perfection.!


We live our lives trying really heard to be perfect - to get that perfect score, to have the perfect dress, to make that perfect presentation for work next day, to have the perfect figure, perfect shoes, perfect accessories... the list is endless. The idea is planted in our minds when are children - the perfect grades is where it starts from - and it takes root (real strong roots) by the time we have reached adolescence.

The perfect partner, the perfect look, the perfect wedding, the perfect flowers, the perfect maid, the perfect party, the perfect guest-list, the perfect location... our pursuit for perfection leads us to look for it in everything around us (literally every single thing)!

In the perpetual chase for perfection, we annihilate ourselves, destroy our confidence and crucify our peace of mind. We are so enamoured with the masquerade of perfectionism that we fail to acknowledge anything even slightly lower than the "perfect 10". When we fall short of our "milestones" for perfection, self-sabotage follows.



Is striving for perfection the only criteria? The chase just leads to frustration, stress, crumbling relationships (yes.!), lower self esteems, fear of failure and a whole load of negativity.

Looking back, we don't remember the perfect score, the perfect dress or that all so perfect party. What we certainly remember are the people and how they made us feel in their presence.

It is essential to understand this pre-eminent certainty in order to not chase perfection, but rather build relationships - not perfect ones - but good enough. Connect with the people around. Strive, not for perfection, but, to be you - a Human Being, a Friend, a Sister/ Brother, a Son/Daughter and a Parent.

In our often-unrealistic pursuits, we often miss out on the people around us, and the wonderful memories that one could create. We miss out on the joys of being with people, right there, in the present moment. It is these moments that create memories for a lifetime...

Starting now, lets build those imperfect relationships, spend time with our loved ones and collect memories.

Begin to Cherish people, and their imperfections. Because for the puzzle to be worthwhile, the pieces have to be imperfect.

Pieces of the puzzle

The crazy neighbour, the metal-head cousin, the fun aunt and the partner-in-crime friend... Every relationship is a part of the puzzle called Life. It is these perfectly imperfect relationships that enhance the significance of our pursuits.

Love people for what they are, without trying to perfect them. You never know how significant their contribution to your puzzle is. And its undoubtedly worth it.!

Most of all, YOU are worth it.!