We live our lives trying really heard to be perfect - to get that perfect score, to have the perfect dress, to make that perfect presentation for work next day, to have the perfect figure, perfect shoes, perfect accessories... the list is endless. The idea is planted in our minds when are children - the perfect grades is where it starts from - and it takes root (real strong roots) by the time we have reached adolescence.
The perfect partner, the perfect look, the perfect wedding, the perfect flowers, the perfect maid, the perfect party, the perfect guest-list, the perfect location... our pursuit for perfection leads us to look for it in everything around us (literally every single thing)!
In the perpetual chase for perfection, we annihilate ourselves, destroy our confidence and crucify our peace of mind. We are so enamoured with the masquerade of perfectionism that we fail to acknowledge anything even slightly lower than the "perfect 10". When we fall short of our "milestones" for perfection, self-sabotage follows.
The perfect partner, the perfect look, the perfect wedding, the perfect flowers, the perfect maid, the perfect party, the perfect guest-list, the perfect location... our pursuit for perfection leads us to look for it in everything around us (literally every single thing)!
In the perpetual chase for perfection, we annihilate ourselves, destroy our confidence and crucify our peace of mind. We are so enamoured with the masquerade of perfectionism that we fail to acknowledge anything even slightly lower than the "perfect 10". When we fall short of our "milestones" for perfection, self-sabotage follows.
Looking back, we don't remember the perfect score, the perfect dress or that all so perfect party. What we certainly remember are the people and how they made us feel in their presence.
It is essential to understand this pre-eminent certainty in order to not chase perfection, but rather build relationships - not perfect ones - but good enough. Connect with the people around. Strive, not for perfection, but, to be you - a Human Being, a Friend, a Sister/ Brother, a Son/Daughter and a Parent.
In our often-unrealistic pursuits, we often miss out on the people around us, and the wonderful memories that one could create. We miss out on the joys of being with people, right there, in the present moment. It is these moments that create memories for a lifetime...
Starting now, lets build those imperfect relationships, spend time with our loved ones and collect memories.
Begin to Cherish people, and their imperfections. Because for the puzzle to be worthwhile, the pieces have to be imperfect.
The crazy neighbour, the metal-head cousin, the fun aunt and the partner-in-crime friend... Every relationship is a part of the puzzle called Life. It is these perfectly imperfect relationships that enhance the significance of our pursuits.
Love people for what they are, without trying to perfect them. You never know how significant their contribution to your puzzle is. And its undoubtedly worth it.!
Most of all, YOU are worth it.!
